如果你那樣討好他，他就會對你提出更多的要求，而他也會要求你改變你的性格，改變你以前的生活方式。

If you please him like that， he will ask you more， and he will ask you to change your character and your previous lifestyle。

因此面對別人的無理要求，你不敢拒絕，生怕從此失去朋友。面面惡毒，不敢與人對峙，生怕從此多了一個仇人。

Therefore， in the face of other people‘s unreasonable requirements， you dare not refuse， for fear of losing friends from now on。 He is vicious and dare not confront others for fear that there will be another enemy from now on。

要想避免自己陷入困境，而屈服於讓自己感到不舒服的各種關係。

To avoid getting into trouble， succumb to relationships that make you uncomfortable。

老實說，她那副樣子，頗有點魯迅筆下祥林嫂的感覺。

To be honest， her appearance is a little like Sister Xianglin in Lu Xun’s works。

不要小看溝通，兩個人相處，表達愛意要靠交流，吐露心聲要靠溝通，即使互相埋怨，也要靠溝通。

Don‘t underestimate communication。 When two people get along and express love， they rely on communication。 Even if they complain about each other， they also rely on communication。

回首人生，從幼稚幼稚到飽經風霜，這一路上遇見了很多人。

Looking back on life， I met many people along the way from childish to weather beaten。

我愛花草，你愛魚鳥，擁有自己的小花園，我們可以盡情地裝點它。

I love flowers and plants。 You love fish and birds。 You have your own small garden。 We can decorate it as much as we like。

可以愛上他後，你便主動拋棄了這一切，你覺得人生的意義只有他，這和飛蛾撲火沒有什麼不同。

After you can fall in love with him， you take the initiative to abandon all this。 You think the meaning of life is only him， which is no different from moths to the fire。