人生的時間有限，短暫的人生旅程，靠別人，終究不如靠自己。

The time of life is limited。 The short journey of life depends on others。 After all， it‘s better to rely on yourself。

我們經常聽到有人說要習慣一個人忽冷忽熱，可真愛上之後，又怎麼習慣呢？

We often hear people say that we should get used to a person’s ups and downs， but after we really fall in love， how can we get used to it？

您說過，我們會永遠在一起。要是誰有了分立的想法，那肯定是“腸穿肚”。那個時候說完這幾個字，我們是在笑，下輩子都確定！

You said we would be together forever。 If anyone has the idea of separation， it must be “gut piercing belly”。 At that time， after saying these words， we were laughing and sure in the next life！

孩子啊，要是能不能慢慢長大呢？親戚啊，能不能保住身體別為難自己？

Child， what if you can grow up slowly？ Relatives， can you keep your body and don‘t embarrass yourself？

對目前太多的男女，即使發生親密關係，一旦利己不能得到滿足，也只能把那種親密無間的過眼雲煙當作人生一次體驗，不要做太多的糾結。

For too many men and women at present， even if there is an intimate relationship， once self-interest can not be satisfied， we can only take the intimate passing clouds as an experience of life， and don’t do too much entanglement。

真正的愛情面前，彼此的靈魂是平等的，彼此站在同一個高度，給予對方最堅持不懈的依賴與保護。

In the face of true love， the souls of each other are equal。 They stand at the same height and give each other the most persistent dependence and protection。

不知有沒有人發現這樣一個問題：現在的男女擇偶觀，已經反了。

I wonder if anyone has found such a problem： the current concept of mate selection between men and women has been reversed。

既無緣由，也無緣由。儘管我們並不想分道揚鑣，但是我們看著這場混亂卻無能為力。

No reason， no reason。 Although we don‘t want to go our separate ways， we can’t help watching the chaos。