很有魅力的人生道理，句句精闢，讓人一見傾心！

歲月輕人不知，雪落雪開又一個秋天。

Years light people do not know， snow and snow open another autumn。

季羨林說：世界上哪裡有真正的同理心？一個人如果能管理好自己的情緒，消化好世間的喜怒哀樂，即使經歷起起落落，也能得到一定的滿足。

Ji Xianlin said： where is there real empathy in the world？ If a person can manage his emotions and digest the joys， sorrows and joys of the world， he can get some satisfaction even through ups and downs。

你們之間沒有矛盾，沒有爭吵，但他總是無緣無故地不聯絡你。

There is no contradiction or quarrel between you， but he always doesn‘t contact you for no reason。

很多時候，連那個地址，都會伴隨著他濃濃的愛。

Many times， even that address will be accompanied by his deep love。

不要強迫一個好久沒聯絡的朋友

Don’t force a friend who hasn‘t been in touch for a long time

少年時每個人的想法都很簡單，在一起都是幸福的，中年後突然不得不比較，不得不炫耀炫耀。

When we were young， everyone’s ideas were very simple。 We were happy together。 After middle age， we suddenly had to compare and show off。

對愛的渴望和對人心善變的恐懼，迴圈往復。

The desire for love and the fear of the fickleness of the human heart go back and forth。

這部分是因為一種天生的害怕與他人不同，部分是因為如果你不奉承他們，害怕冒犯他們。

This is partly because of an innate fear of being different from others， and partly because if you don‘t flatter them， you are afraid to offend them。

殊不知，正是因為這樣，才讓自己的感情如死水一般沒有波瀾。

As everyone knows， it is precisely because of this that their feelings are like stagnant water without waves。

你不任性，不嬌生慣養，不調皮搗蛋，你認為這是優點。

You are not capricious， spoiled or naughty。 You think this is an advantage。