俗話說：“得不到的總是最好的。”現實就是這樣，來得太容易的感情，總是不會被珍惜。

As the saying goes， “what you can‘t get is always the best。” the reality is like this。 Feelings that come too easily will never be cherished。

正因為如此，生活中喜歡依賴別人的人不再是少數，尤其是女性，她們在關係中往往特別粘人，甚至把男性視為生活的中心。

Because of this， people who like to rely on others in life are no longer a minority， especially women。 They are often very clingy in relationships， and even regard men as the center of life。

但現在，在經歷了幾段感情之後，她毅然選擇了局外人，並嫁給了一個比她小兩歲的清華大學教授，他也是富二代。

But now， after several relationships， she resolutely chose an outsider and married a Tsinghua University Professor two years younger than her。 He is also a rich second generation。

因為初戀往往發生在人們十幾歲的時候，所以它往往停留在一個很淺的層次上，有太多的事情雙方都沒有一起經歷過，留給彼此的回憶太少。

Because first love often happens when people are teenagers， it often stays at a very shallow level。 There are too many things that both sides have not experienced together， leaving too few memories for each other。

如果你有這些不像你的行為，這意味著你真的很低下。你無條件地縱容和寵著他，卻忽略了你也是一個需要照顧的人。

If you have these behaviors that are not like you， it means that you are really low。 You indulge and spoil him unconditionally， but ignore that you are also a person who needs to be taken care of。

當你想知道一箇中年女人是否對你有感覺時，最好的方法不是直接問她，而是看她是否願意對你誠實。

When you want to know if a middle-aged woman has feelings for you， the best way is not to ask her directly， but to see if she is willing to be honest with you。