要處理好一段關係，不能單靠一個人。

To handle a relationship well， you can‘t rely on one person alone。

人生地不熟，不要在意太多的東西，想這想那，自己反而越活越累。

Life is not familiar， do not care about too many things， think about this and that， but the more you live， the more tired you are。

這位女士對你的真實反應，足以證明她對你的心。

The lady’s true reaction to you is enough to prove her heart to you。

無論你多麼脆弱和無助，都沒有向旁人展現。

No matter how vulnerable and helpless you are， you don‘t show it to others。

人生一世，是體驗，也是修行。

Life is both experience and practice。

在以後的相處中，你們再也沒有過“良性互動”。

In the future， you never had a “benign interaction”。

他不會因為你需要而拒絕給予；

He won’t refuse because you need it；

因此，少說閒話，少背後揭人短，誹謗他人對你毫無好處。

Therefore， it‘s not good for you to gossip less， expose people behind their backs， and slander others。

這種痴情的想法已經成為了你的心病，在你腦海中揮之不去。

This infatuated idea has become your heart disease and lingers in your mind。

青春的流逝總是悄悄的，等你發覺時，才發現生命已經過了一半。

The passage of youth is always quiet。 When you find it， you will find that life is half over。

仔細想想，自打之後，你已經換了新環境了，身邊也一直出現了新鮮人。

Think about it carefully。 Since the war， you have changed your environment and new people have always appeared around you。

其中的人是真的，有人是假的；有好的和壞的。

Some of them are true and some are false； There are good and bad。

但即使這樣，你也要學會直面現實，不要一遍五遍地和他聯絡。

But even so， you should learn to face the reality and don’t contact him over and over again。

所以，命中註定不能相守的兩個人，往往只能暫時相擁。

Therefore， two people destined not to be together often can only hug each other temporarily。