人類的生存也應該如此。現在處境越糟，越要學會微笑面對。

So should human survival。 The worse the situation is now， the more we should learn to face it with a smile。

心境成熟，樂觀，便不再與周遭的世界作鬥爭，而是會一心一意經營自己的生活。

When you are mature and optimistic， you will no longer struggle with the world around you， but will wholeheartedly manage your own life。

愛臉迎合奉承你的人，常常比誰都希望你不走運。

Those who love to cater to your flatterer often hope you are unlucky than anyone else。

人生漫漫，風風雨雨，個人境遇，始終不能順遂。

Life is long， ups and downs， personal circumstances， always can not go smoothly。

如此謙遜、寵辱不驚的境界，才是最好的，更是一個人的智慧所在。

Such a modest and unassuming state is the best and the wisdom of a person。

當你在生活中遇到不如意時，他會表現得比你還在乎。

When you encounter disappointments in life， he will show that he cares more than you do。

一般來說，你不厭其煩地去迎合別人，還是放低姿態遷就別人，不僅卑微，而且總是得病。

Generally speaking， whether you take the trouble to cater to others or lower your posture to accommodate others is not only humble， but also always sick。

所謂的“知心”，就是最瞭解你的人。

The so-called “bosom friend” is the person who knows you best。

你們中的那些同學，朋友，親戚，甚至同事們，經常公開質問你，或者把你算下來。

Your classmates， friends， relatives and even colleagues often question you publicly or count you down。

生活中每一個低谷，對個人來說，都是一種挑戰。

Every trough in life is a challenge for individuals。

與其痴迷等他理你，不如趁早把話說清楚，不要讓他這樣戲弄你，才是最明智的辦法。

Instead of waiting for him to take care of you， it‘s better to make it clear as soon as possible。 Don’t let him tease you like this。 It‘s the wisest way。